Jealousy

Jealousy

Just sit back for a minute and think about all the problems we have in life. Tensions, worries, anger, sadness and the list goes on. There are good things in life as well like happiness, passion, ambition success, and this list is even more longer and that is obvious because who will want problems in life!? One major problem in everyone's life is jealousy!  What exactly is jealousy? Each feeling can be described in some or the other way but how would you describe jealousy? Jealousy is the feeling of envious resentment of something or someone. People who are jealous will try to pull you down, they will try to achieve everything that others have. Humans lust for more and more things will never end. Human greed is a big problem. Jealousy is a special form of anxiety which occurs due to lack of sense in relation to the one who is loved. There is surely  a difference between 'envy' and 'jealousy'. Envy is a desire of things which belong to some other person. Jealousy desires wanting of love. Jealousy arises apprehending loss of affection. What i personally feel is that jealousy in a friendship is sign that you are loved by someone and feel important. Jealousy is a sign that you love that person. Jealousy is defined as an envious or a bitter attitude. Not many people think of jealousy as a deep emotion. It can be useful/harmful/useless. The most common impression of jealousy is a negative one. Those who try to make you jealous are pulling themselves down by such a shameful act. They might not show it but they might take revenge. The biggest sign of an egoistic and jealous person is revenge. Jealousy can cause one to work more hard in the field of education. There is always a competitive atmosphere and attitude between children to do well and the one who fails is obviously jealous. The feeling of jealousy needs to be removed from one's heart! 'Make it or break it' jealousy can make a strong bond or break the one you already have. Jealousy is an amalgamated emotion. It can break a person down. It can make you lose your loved ones. All of life is a near-death experience and jealousy is one of the causes.

What sort of love is permeated by jealousy?  You are jealous because you are unaware that everything you need is inside you. What you seek is seeking you. Don't hide from the one you're seeking. Tell your close and trusted person your problems. 

'Jealousy is the tribute mediocrity pays to the genius!'

By Dev Barot.